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Likutei Moharan 69:4/ליקוטי מוהר"ן ס״ט:ד׳
אוְזֶה בְּחִינַת קִדּוּשִׁין, כִּי כְּשֶׁאֵין שְׁלֵמוּת בְּדָבָר, יֵשׁ שָׁם אֲחִיזַת הַסִּטְרָא אָחֳרָא וְהַקְּלִפּוֹת. וְהַנֶּפֶשׁ בְּחִינַת נוּקְבָא, הִיא בֵּין הַקְּלִפּוֹת, כִּי הִיא מִתְפַּזֶּרֶת וְנִדַּחַת בֵּינֵיהֶם תָּמִיד, בִּבְחִינַת (משלי ה׳:ה׳): רַגְלֶיהָ יוֹרְדוֹת מָוֶת. וְעַל כֵּן כְּשֶׁהִיא רוֹאָה זֶה הַכֶּסֶף אוֹ שְׁוֵה כֶּסֶף, שֶׁהוּא בְּחִינַת שְׁלֵמוּת אוֹרָהּ כַּנַּ"ל, בְּיַד זֶה הָאִישׁ שֶׁבָּא לְקַדֵּשׁ אוֹתָהּ וּלְהַשְׁלִימָהּ, עַל יְדֵי זֶה תְּאֵבָה אֵלָיו וְנִכְסֶפֶת לוֹ, שֶׁהוּא יַשְׁלִים אוֹרָהּ, וִיקַבֵּץ נִדָּחֶיהָ מִבֵּין הַקְּלִפּוֹת, לְהוֹצִיא רַגְלֶיהָ מִמָּוֶת.
14. This is also the concept of betrothal. When something is lacking in wholeness, the Other Side and the forces of evil affect it. The soul, the feminine aspect, is caught among the forces of evil. For she is incessantly dispersed and driven into their midst, as in “Her feet descend to death” (Proverbs 5:5). Silver, or its monetary equivalent, is the abovementioned completion of her light. Therefore, when she sees it in the hand of the man who wants to betroth her and make her whole, she is drawn to him. She yearns for him to complete her light and gather up her dispersed parts from the midst of the evil forces, in order to remove her feet from death.
בוְזֶה בְּחִינַת קִדּוּשִׁין בְּכֶסֶף, כִּי עַל־יְדֵי שֶׁנִּשְׁלָם אוֹרָהּ עַל יְדֵי הַכֶּסֶף, וְאֵין בָּהּ חִסָּרוֹן, עַל־יְדֵי־זֶה הִיא מִתְקַדֶּשֶׁת מִטֻּמְאָתָהּ, וְיוֹצְאָה מִבֵּין הַקְּלִפּוֹת. וְעַל כֵּן הִיא מְקֻדֶּשֶׁת וְנִקְנֵית אֵלָיו עַל־יְדֵי הַכֶּסֶף הַזֶּה, כִּי הַכֶּסֶף הוּא שְׁלֵמוּת אוֹר הָאִשָּׁה כַּנַּ"ל. וְזֶה לְשׁוֹן קִדּוּשִׁין – שֶׁמִּתְקַדֶּשֶׁת וּמַזְמֶנֶת עַצְמָהּ לָצֵאת מִן הַטֻּמְאָה, וּלְקַבֵּל קְדֻשָּׁה עַל יָדוֹ:
2And this is the concept of using money to betroth a woman. When her light is completed through the money so that she is not lacking, she is sanctified from impurity and goes free from the evil forces. She is therefore betrothed and becomes his by means of this money, for money completes a woman’s light. This is the connotation of the word KiDduShin (betrothal): she mitKaDdeShet (sanctifies herself) and readies herself to emerge from impurity and receive holiness through him.
גוּבְכָל הַמַּשָּׂא־וּמַתָּן שֶׁהוּא נוֹשֵׂא וְנוֹתֵן וּמַרְוִיחַ, הוּא מַשְׁלִים אוֹרָהּ בָּזֶה, וּמְקַבֵּץ נִדָּחֶיהָ. כִּי הוּא צָרִיךְ לְהַשְׁלִים אוֹרָהּ תָּמִיד, כִּי הוּא בְּחִינַת הֲנָקַת הָאִילָן וְהָעֲנָפִים וְהַפֵּרוֹת, שֶׁעַל יְדֵי שֶׁהוּא מֵינִיקָם וּמַשְׁלִימָם, עַל־יְדֵי־זֶה הָאִילָן מְגַדֵּל עֲנָפִים, הַיְנוּ שֶׁמִּתְנוֹצֵץ אוֹרָהּ, וְהָעֲנָפִים עוֹשִׂים פֵּרוֹת כַּנַּ"ל. וְזֶה שֶׁנּוֹתֵן לָהּ כְּתֻבָּה תֵּכֶף אַחַר הַקִּדּוּשִׁין, וּמַבְטִיחַ לָהּ בַּכְּתֻבָּה: וַאֲנָא אֶפְלַח וְאוֹקִיר וְאוֹזִין וַאֲפַרְנֵס יָתֵךְ – שֶׁמַּבְטִיחַ לָהּ לְהַשְׁלִים אוֹרָהּ תָּמִיד, עַל־יְדֵי הַמָּמוֹן כַּנַּ"ל:
3Thus, through all the business activity that a man engages in and profits from, he completes [his wife’s] light and gathers up her dispersed parts. For he must continually complete her light, since he is the aspect of nourishing the tree, the branches and the fruits. His providing them with sustenance and completing them causes the tree to grow branches—i.e., her light to shine—and the branches produce fruits, as explained. This is why immediately following the betrothal he gives her a marriage contract, in which he guarantees: “I will labor, honor, support and provide for you.” He assures her that he will always complete her light by means of the money, as explained above.