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Or HaChaim on Genesis 41:50/אור החיים על בראשית מ״א:נ׳

אוּלְיוֹסֵף יֻלַּד וְגוֹ׳. קֶשֶׁר הַכָּתוּב עִם שֶׁלְּמַעְלָה מִמֶּנּוּ, לוֹמַר הַשָּׂגַת הַטּוֹב שֶׁל יוֹסֵף בְּשֶׁבַע שְׁנֵי שָׂבָע, כִּי מִלְּבַד כִּי צָבַר בָּר הַרְבֵּה וְהִצְלִיחַ, גַּם כִּי נִזְכַּר לְטוֹבָה בַּבָּנִים, וּקְרִיאַת שֵׁם בָּנָיו כֵּן יַגִּיד כִּי הוּא שְׂבַע רָצוֹן כִּי נִשָּׁהוּ ה׳ כָּל עֲמָלוֹ וְהִפְרָהוּ ה׳, וּפְרִיָּה זוֹ כּוֹלֶלֶת בָּנִים וְעֹשֶׁר וְכָבוֹד:
1 וליוסף יולד שני בנים, Two sons were born to Joseph, etc. The Torah includes this with what has been recorded before about Joseph's remarkable achievements during these seven years. The names Joseph gave his sons are proof that he was well pleased that G'd had let him forget his previous problems and had also made him fruitful. The word "fruitful" includes both having children, amassing wealth and being honoured.
בבְּטֶרֶם תָּבֹא שְׁנַת וְגוֹ׳. בְּמַסֶּכֶת תַּעֲנִית (תענית יא.) דָּרְשׁוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה מִכָּאן שֶׁאָסוּר לְשַׁמֵּשׁ מִטָּתוֹ בִּשְׁנֵי רָעָב. וּבְהֶכְרֵחַ לוֹמַר שֶׁדְּרָשָׁתָם הִיא בְּאִם אֵינוֹ עִנְיָן לְיוֹסֵף, שֶׁהֲרֵי הוּא עֲדַיִן לֹא קִיֵּם פִּרְיָה וְרִבְיָּה, וְאָמְרוּ שָׁם בַּשַּׁ״ס בְּפֵרוּשׁ שֶׁחֲשׂוּכֵי בָנִים מְשַׁמְּשִׁין מִטּוֹתֵיהֶן בִּשְׁנֵי רָעָב, וְלֹא מָצִינוּ שֶׁהָיוּ לְיוֹסֵף בָּנִים קֹדֶם אֶפְרַיִם וּמְנַשֶּׁה, וּכְפִי הַדִּין אֲפִלּוּ בְּשֶׁבַע שְׁנֵי רָעָב הָיָה לוֹ לְשַׁמֵּשׁ, אֶלָּא שֶׁהַכָּתוּב נִדְרָשׁ בְּאִם אֵינוֹ עִנְיָן.
2בטרם תבוא שנת הרעב, before the year of famine arrived. Taanit 11 derives from here that it is forbidden to maintain marital relations during a famine. We can conclude from the fact that the Talmud uses the example of Joseph [the words "before the arrival of the year of famine"] to deduce this ruling, that it is applicable only to people who have not yet fulfilled the commandment to be fruitful. Joseph had already fulfilled that commandment, ergo he could not have marital relations during the famine. Had he not had children yet, the fact that there was a famine would not have represented a halachic hindrance to his having normal marital relations during that period.
גוּמֵעַתָּה לֹא קָשֶׁה מַה שֶׁהִקְשׁוּ הַתּוֹסָפוֹת שָׁם מִיּוֹכֶבֶד שֶׁנּוֹלְדָה בֵּין הַחוֹמוֹת, שֶׁשִּׁמֵּשׁ לֵוִי בִּשְׁנֵי רָעָב, כִּי כְּשֶׁיָּרְדוּ אֲבוֹתֵינוּ מִצְרַיְמָה הָיְתָה שָׁנָה שְׁנִיָּה לִשְׁנֵי רָעָב, וְנִדְחֲקוּ לוֹמַר שֶׁמִּדַּת חֲסִידוּת שָׁנוּ וְלֵוִי לֹא הָיָה חָסִיד בְּדָבָר זֶה. וְאֵין נִרְאִין דִּבְרֵיהֶם, לֹא בְּמַה שֶׁאָמְרוּ מִדַּת חֲסִידוּת, כִּי מִכָּתוּב דָּרְשׁוּ לָהּ, וְלֹא בְּמַה שֶׁיָּצָא מִדִּבְרֵיהֶם כִּי לֵוִי לֹא הָיָה חָסִיד. הֵעִידָה עָלָיו הַתּוֹרָה (דברים לג:ח) ״לְאִישׁ חֲסִידֶךָ״ כִּי הוּא הָיָה חָסִיד שֶׁבַּשְּׁבָטִים, וַהֲגַם שֶׁעַל זַרְעוֹ הוּא אוֹמֵר, הָעֲנָפִים יַגִּידוּ עַל הַשֹּׁרֶשׁ. וְקֻשְׁיַת הַתּוֹסָפוֹת אֵינוֹ קֻשְׁיָא, כִּי דְּרָשַׁת חֲכָמִים הִיא בְּאִם אֵינוֹ עִנְיָן, וְלֵוִי לְצַד שֶׁהָיָה חָסֵר נְקֵבָה לֹא נִמְנַע מִלְּשַׁמֵּשׁ מִטָּתוֹ כַּהֲלָכָה (יבמות סא:, אבן העזר סימן א).
3Keeping this in mind, the question raised by Tossaphot in the Talmud about how Yocheved could have been born during the descent of Jacob's family to Egypt, seeing the famine was in full swing at the time, becomes moot. Tossaphot is at pains to explain that the rule was not a legal one but only a pious practice. This appears unacceptable seeing the whole rule is based on scripture. Besides, the Torah testifies to Levi's piety in Deut. 33,8, suggesting that of all the sons of Jacob he was the most pious. Even though the statement in Deuteronomy refers to the descendants of Levi, i.e. the branches, it is most certainly applicable also to the root, i.e. to Levi himself. Inasmuch as Levi did not yet have a daughter at the time, he was at liberty (compare Yevamot 61 and Even Ha-Ezer 1) to indulge in normal conjugal relations with his wife.
דוְעוֹד לֹא אָמְרוּ אִסּוּר דָּבָר זֶה אֶלָּא לְצַד צַעַר יִשְׂרָאֵל וְלֹא לְצַד צַעַר הָאֻמּוֹת כִּי יִרְעָבוּ, כִּי לֹא מַעֲלִין וְלֹא מוֹרִידִין. וְאָז לֵוִי אֵין חִיּוּב לִמְנֹעַ עַצְמוֹ לְצַד צָרַת הָאֻמּוֹת, כִּי יַעֲקֹב הָיְתָה לוֹ תְּבוּאָה כְּאָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (תענית י.) וְלֹא הָיָה שׁוֹלֵחַ בָּנָיו לִשְׁבֹּר בָּר אֶלָּא לְצַד מַרְאִית הָעַיִן, דִּכְתִיב (בראשית מב:א) ״לָמָּה תִּתְרָאוּ״. וַהֲגַם שֶׁאָמְרוּ (בראשית רבה צא) שֶׁשָּׁלְמוּ שְׂעָרֵי מִכַּדָּא, זֶה הָיָה אַחַר שָׁנָה רִאשׁוֹנָה. אֲבָל שָׁנָה רִאשׁוֹנָה וַדַּאי שֶׁהָיָה לָהֶם תְּבוּאָה, וְלָזֶה הָיָה מֻתָּר לוֹ לְשַׁמֵּשׁ. וּבִשְׁבִיל יוֹסֵף אֵין לָהֶם לִמְנֹעַ עַצְמָן בִּשְׁבִיל חֲשַׁשׁ רָעָב יָחִיד. וְיוֹסֵף אִם לֹא הָיָה טַעַם שֶׁהָיָה חֲשׂוּךְ בָּנִים, אֶפְשָׁר שֶׁהָיָה נִמְנָע לְצַד חֲשַׁשׁ אָבִיו וְאֶחָיו כִּי יִרְעָבוּ וְהֵם רַבִּים.
4Moreover, the prohibition of conjugal relations applies only when the Jewish people experience the pain of a famine. Famine amongst the Gentiles has no bearing on Jewish family life. Inasmuch as Jacob was known to have a sufficient supply of food (compare Taanit 10) and he only sent his sons to Egypt for appearances' sake (so as not to arouse the envy of his neighbours) as we know from Rashi on Genesis 42,1 למה תתראו, Levi had acted one hundred percent within accepted Jewish norms. While it is true that there is a statement in Bereshit Rabbah 91, that Jacob's family did not even have any barley left, that statement refers to the second year of the famine. During the first year they certainly had enough grain left and Levi had every right to sleep with his wife. They did not have to refrain from conjugal relations on account of Joseph. Joseph was only an individual and the rule applies only to when a community is in economic straits. It is possible that Joseph refrained from conjugal relations with his wife during the famine because he knew that his family in the land of Canaan was suffering from the famine (the first year before they came to him).