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Ramban on Genesis 39:14/רמב"ן על בראשית ל״ט:י״ד

אוְטַעַם רְאוּ הֵבִיא לָנוּ אִישׁ עִבְרִי כִּי הָעִבְרִים שְׂנוּאֵי הַמִּצְרִים הֵמָּה, וְלֹא יוּכְלוּ לֶאֱכֹל אִתָּם לֶחֶם כִּי תוֹעֵבָה הִיא לָהֶם (בראשית מ"ג:ל"ב), וְלֹא יִקְנוּ מֵהֶם רַק לְכוֹרְמִים וּלְיוֹגְבִים, וְלֹא יָבֹאוּ בְּבֵיתָם. וְלָכֵן אָמְרָה הִנֵּה עָשָׂה עִמָּנוּ רָעָה לְהָבִיא בְּבֵיתֵנוּ עִבְרִי וַעֲשָׂאוֹ פָּקִיד וְנָגִיד, וְרָאוּי לוֹ שֶׁיְּצַחֵק בָּנוּ, כְּעִנְיָן שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (משלי כט כא) "מְפַנֵּק מִנֹּעַר עַבְדּוֹ" וְגוֹ', וְזֶה טַעַם "אֲשֶׁר הֵבֵאתָ לָּנוּ", כִּי הֲבָאָתוֹ בְּבֵיתָם הָיְתָה קָשָׁה בְּעֵינֵיהֶם. וְאָמְרָה "הֵבִיא לָנוּ" עַל בַּעְלָהּ, לֹא הִזְכִּירַתּוּ לִכְבוֹדוֹ, אוֹ בְּדֶרֶךְ מוּסָר לַנָּשִׁים, אוֹ בַּעֲבוּר שֶׁהַמֵּבִיא יָדוּעַ. וְכֵן בְּסֵפֶר אִיּוֹב בִּמְקוֹמוֹת רַבִּים יְדַבֵּר עַל הַשֵּׁם הַנִּכְבָּד בִּסְתָם, בַּעֲבוּר דַּעְתָּם שֶׁעָלָיו יְדַבְּרוּ. וְכֵן "וַיֹּאמֶר אֶל אַבְנֵר מַדּוּעַ בָּאתָ אֶל פִּילֶגֶשׁ אָבִי" (שמואל ב ג ז), לֹא יַזְכִּיר הָאוֹמֵר וְלֹא דִּבֵּר בּוֹ כְּלָל בַּעֲבוּר הֱיוֹתוֹ יָדוּעַ שֶׁהוּא אִישׁ בֹּשֶׁת:

1SEE, HE HATH BROUGHT IN A HEBREW UNTO US. The meaning thereof is that the Hebrews were hated by the Egyptians. They did not eat with them, this being a matter of abhorrence to them.²³³ They did not purchase them as servants except as vinedressers and plowmen, but they would not permit them to come into their homes. This is why she said: “Behold, the master has done us evil by bringing a Hebrew into our home, and he has further appointed him as overseer and ruler, and now he has fittingly seen to mock us.” [The point of her statement] is similar to that which is said in the verse, He that delicately bringeth up his servant from a child shall have him become a master at the last.²³⁴ This is the meaning of her saying, Whom thou hast brought unto us,²³⁵ as his being brought into their house was in itself embarassing to them.In the verse before us, the expression, He has brought us, refers to her husband. She does not mention him by name out of respect,²³⁶ or perhaps because such is the ethical way for women to speak, or perhaps because it is known who brought Joseph into the house. Similarly, in many places in the book of Job it speaks of Almighty G-d anonymously because the conversants know that they are speaking of Him. Similarly, in the verse, And he said to Abner, Why hast thou gone in unto my father’s concubine?²³⁷ the name of the speaker is not mentioned, and no reference is made to him at all in the above verse because it is known that he was Ish-bosheth.²³⁸